Here’s how you can do it:
Listen – Odds are the person you’re hoping to meet and interact with is putting their voice online either in writing, podcasts, or posts. Read them. Listen to their stuff. This baseline investment is no different than standing in the circle at a chapter meeting to hear what is on someone’s mind. While a simplified first step, many people do not take the time to read what others write or watch an entire video.
Comment – Start the relationship by commenting on their work. You don’t need to gush, simply point out something you learned or thank them for creating the article or show.
Share – Up the relationship by commenting on a few posts and then start sharing specific pieces of their work that you like. In a digital sense, a share is an endorsement. You’re bringing to your fans and followers a perspective that they might not have heard
Connect with NO ASK – After listening, commenting on a few posts, and sharing some work then reach out with a connection request. Do not send the automated request, just write a line or two that you’ve been following their work and you’d like to connect and learn more. Do not – ever – ask for anything in your first outreach. You’ll be seen as sales-y and your chance of earning a relationship will go down.
Give – If you get a connection, do one more thing before you ask for anything…give. If you’re a writer, podcast host or presenter, give away your stage. Reach out to the connection and ask if they would like to be featured on your product, show or blog.
Ask – If, by now you’ve been listening, commenting, sharing, and giving, you’ve set yourself up to ask for something from the contact. Don’t ask for a sale, that’s still a few steps off. But you could ask for a brief one-on-one or some feedback on your work.
Creating relationships online isn’t much different than creating them in person. You give before you receive and you “show up” with an honest intention to learn about the person whom with you’d like to do business. These steps are just one way you go about meeting and connecting with almost anyone.
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